I'm 28 and I've been taking care of my mother for the past ten years. Up until 5 years ago, it was minor (I did all the driving, shopping, most of the housekeeping). 5 years ago, my mother had a complication from surgery that drastically altered our lives. Now, I basically do everything. I can't leave her alone for long periods of time because of memory and stability problems. I am her poa, we are cotrustees on her trust fund. Just recently her brother was diagnosed with terminal cancer (and that's being added to my responsibilities) and since the diagnosis, my mom has been intolerable. She has significant impulse control, she's depressed, bipolar, and she keeps trying to spend money that she shouldn't, and every time I tell her "no" she throws a fit. This whole situation has left me angry, bitter, frustrated, depressed. I don't take any time for myself (my mother won't allow it), I feel so stuck... and I end up hating myself for the way I feel towards her. Is there something I can do so that I don't feel so negatively?