My mother's doctor says she is just getting old. She 84yrs young. I get weekly email from AgingCare and MANY stories I read are what my brother and I are going thru. I plan on calling doctor this week to ask him to look into Dementia for my mother. I signed up for live chats support group and I found a local support group. I do not want to fight with my mother anymore. I want to understand! My brother lives with her and they fight also everyday. I am worried that he could have a stroke. I realized 4yrs ago that my mother is not the same caring person she use to be, it was a mourning process I when thru, very sad. She use to be my go to for everything in my life, that is over.