My 92 year old mother who now lives with me on the east coast because she was getting no help from my worthless brothers on the west coast, is now accusing me constantly of stealing money from her accounts. I love my mother very much and have not ask for a dime since she moved here, but it sure would be nice if I would offer something in return for all that I am doing for her. Not even a thank you....I am starting to resent having moved her here. Because she now thinks I have become the town thief, how do I proceed legally to become her power of attorney???? It's not a position I want but there is no one else to step up to it. Help.