I have been Mother's caregiver now for 18 months and my Older sister and brother are in agreement that mother will not be returning back home to be cared for. Initially my sister took 4 months to forward any financial assistance for Mom's Health Care, and only then because I asked her and going forward, when and what she wants for Mother's Health Care.
Not only does this disturb me, early on while Mother was living at home, I have knowledge that she made payments of $500 for lawn care to my brother; has sold her & mom's older car & paid off a newer car under her name & Mom's; had a QCD prepared in which my incompetent Mother signed her first name only to Herself & my Older brother; to this date she pays for her and my nephews luxuries of life such as utilities (Cable, Lights, Water & Cell phone bills) And my sister has recently been given a diagnosis of MS and has waited 4 months for an appointment to do anything about it knowing she has had it for a long time at the time of being diagnosed.
I know that a guardianship is costly and quite frankly I can not afford it. Mom has no will. I hope someone can shed some light on this subject as I'm not like the other siblings who are like waiting for mother to pass, I'm grateful to have her in my life and I genuinely care what happens to her and her assets going forward!!