What are the options for the annual Medicare wellness visit?

I always emailed my mother's doctor a few days before her visit noting the date and time of the appointment, plus our concerns. It gave the Dr. time to review before the appointment.

I also brought a legal-sized pad of paper and took notes while the Dr. talked to Mom and would hold it up behind Mom's head if the doctor needed additional info.

I remember when she asked Mom if she was sleeping well and Mom said yes, I held up the pad with SLEEPS 16 HOURS/DAY. That told the doctor Mom was sleeping more than just "well."

I take notes with me. One page, one sided, and 14 font. Short and sweet. I would list anything new going on. I would hand it to the receptionist and ask it be given to the doctor to read before he saw Mom. If you are in the same room, try to sit outside her sight but where the doctor can see you. Moms doctor always sat me in a corner and would glance over giving me the ability to shake my head yes or no or roll my eyes. You don't have to say anything. Your face will tell all.

Surely the person who is asking the questions is aware that she has dementia and is not a reliable informant? If not, send them a note either on the practice’s patient portal or mailed to the doctor to let them know beforehand. In the examination room, make sure your LO takes a seat facing close to the doctor or nurse. You sit behind her or to one side. As the questions are asked, give a slight “no” nod when she’s giving the wrong answer. This works for me and my LO.