Hi. We just moved my grandma to ALF and I've noticed that she doesn't get her teeth brushed daily and sometimes she's in the same clothing for two days. She has dementia and the staff say she declined, but she will always decline, if asked. What are reasonable expectations for care in these areas? She also has mild dementia. I want to give her and the staff time for adjustment, but I also want to be sure she's getting the care needed. I go daily to visit and she's been there a week.

