Transfers between our bank accounts. It was easier to manage the household bills, maintenance, etc. I transferred in as much as I transferred out of her account. The facility that I’m trying to get her approval for are telling me to forget it- she’ll never get Medicaid. Trust me: there is no hidden funds. Does anyone know if an Elder Attorney would be able to help? The Medicaid coordinator in the facility has made me feel like I’ve been stealing my mother's money. It’s HORRIFYING. Our combined household income (my job salary and her SS) is under 80k. Trying to live on Long Island with this kind of income is ridiculous.