My mother is 87 years old she lives above us with my 31 year old son recovering from leukemia. She has always smoked but when in the hospital can go periods of time without. Yesterday she fell asleep with a cigarette somehow in her bed and it caught fire. I am so angry. I told her she could no longer smoke I will get her an electronic cigarette or vapor. Do you think this is too harsh? I love my mom but I don't want to lose a home either. In the past she is also left the gas on the stove on.