In-laws one with dementia, the other had a stroke and uses a walker need 7 day a week care a few hours a day. We met a lady that has become a friend that does hh. We are going to have her move onto in-laws property free rent and utilities. She will be doing laundry, cleaning, some cooking, medicine, hygiene, errands etc. We will be paying her from their money. We travel for work. How do we pay her and also keep track of what she spends on their food etc and be able to show to Medicaid if later down the road they have to go to NH? Their Dr. said this would be ideal for them!!!