I took care of my grandma for around the last 7 years as a live in care giver. She finally got to the point I couldn't do it anymore and the family put her in a nursing home. The nursing home said as I'm her grandson and was a live in care giver for so long that I get to keep the home. Medicaid is trying to say as I'm a grandchild not child that no I don't. Now when I was 5 the courts gave my grandparents legal guardianship of me, but not adoptive. That's part of what Medicaid is trying to use against us. Also I'm on disability myself and have been for 15 years.