My Mom is full code at the present time. I am her legal guardian. She has Alzheimer's and it is progressing. She can still communicate but her dementia is pretty severe at times. I feel she should be a DNR. It's common knowledge that if she were to be resuscitated that her capacities would be diminished. The problem is one of my siblings, I don't feel comfortable changing mom's advanced directives without everyone agreeing and she does not. Last time the subject was mentioned at a care conference she told everyone that the nursing home and I were conspiring to change Moms wishes so we could just let her die. Can anyone suggest a way to broach the subject in an easy way that may help get my sister on board?