He lays in bed most of the time, can't walk, and has a hard time talking. He does not like to sit up in bed, he gets very upset if you raise him so I figure if I can come up with a water bottle of some sorts that is easy to pick up and not too difficult to understand, that would help. I was thinking of a bottle with the really long, stiff straw like the football players use. Any ideas welcome.
I also agree with Pam that having hospice involved will be very comforting for both of you.