It seems like my mom is just wasting away. She must weigh 95 lbs. When I am with her, she will eat, but only half as much. I can feel the hardware in her hips. I don't know if this is really happening or is she just lonely? I have done my best to keep her in her own home, but now am questioning whether a community setting would be a better setting. My dad passed 15 months ago, but with her mind I don't think it really processed through. She just waits for someone to visit. It's killing me.