He is abrasive, arrogant and rude. He should not be driving, but, he takes the car and drive. He was told by his doctors not to drive. I told his doctor about his behavior and they have set up him for to take the driving test to assess him. He has daughters from a previous marriage and he talks about me negatively to his daughters and I can hear him. They only tell him to behave. I am tire of living my life for him. I have been his faithful caregiver and advocate, but, he does not appreciate. I feel that it is not worth the fight. He does not love me as much as I Iove him. Words of love does not mean anything from, because action speaks louder than words. I am at the point of resentful and hatred towards him. I feel I do not have any other alternative, but, to leave.