He had a stroke in Jan. 2014, I brought him home from the V.A. (in Des Moines,IA.in on April 3, 2014.I have been told to commit him or put him in a home. I can't do either because I know if I do it will kill him. Granted I want my life back but not at the expense of his. I'll know when I can no longer deal with him at home. At that time I'll get a hold of a dispatcher friend of mine and he can get a hold of the DeSoto, IA. police officer, but I know it has to be God's will and then I'll have a peace about what I'm doing. (Not I got my life back, so now I can walk around the trailer park, up to the Post Office to get my mail, and go back to church. I have given up a lot for him (but that's what love is about.