I want to go to a support group. I can't think of an excuse. If it's a fun thing, it's called selfish and proof I don't love my mother; if it is for a doctor's apt. and I don't let her drive me, I'm rejecting her (proof I don't love her), and if I tell her the truth, it means that I don't love her or I wouldn't need support. In addition to her, I care for a handicapped teen daughter and a 20 year old mental ill daughter. If I say it's for them, she'll find a way to take it out on them that I can't prove is connected.