Anyone know if theres a waiting list for long term care services on medicaid in say Arlington area of Virginia? Also, any information on a family member being paid as a caregiver would be helpful also. And day centers that accept people with incontinence. I reached out to aging and disability services and they were unwilling to give me in depth information. I understand the program in our current state pretty well and may have asked too many specific questions. The lady i spoke with seemed annoyed. Any and all information is greatly appreciated.