My dad told me he was going to stay at his condo until he died!!!! Then his one day a week, relatively new in home caregiver told him he thinks he should move in with me. Now he says he should move in with me since that is what she says. He is perfectly happy barking orders at me when I am at his condo....get me more tea, put some ice in it, fix me some eggs, you didn't put salt and pepper on them (I did, dad), you didn't put enough salt and pepper on them, etc.
My dad has a walker, but has some knee problems that apparently makes walking painful. So I think he would rather sit and have someone do everything for him. For those of you who have loved ones living with you, do you jump when they say jump? How am I going to have him live with my husband and me?