My narcissistic mother, who was diagnosed with dementia 3 years ago, will be moving from my house into an assisted living facility next month. Since my father's death in January my mother has transferred her disagreeable interactions to me. My siblings are resentful of what they feel is the disproportionate amount of our parents' future estate I have received as a result of my being their caregiver - although they will not acknowledge I have been a caregiver. And when I leave for work each day I lock a section of my house to protect my personal belongings from my siblings who visit my mother and pack boxes to be "stored" at their houses until the move. To say this is all unpleasant is an understatement. I am counting down the days until the move and I want to regain balance without any interaction with my family. In time I expect my raw feelings about my mother will subside. However, I don't expect to get over the hurtful words and actions of my siblings. I need some space and do not want to visit my mother for a while after she moves but I am feeling guilty about it. As the daughter of a narcissist I learned early on that my mother's feelings trumped my own so I am struggling with some personal daemons. Any words of wisdom from those of you who have walked this path?