Easter is March 31. I would like to visit my mother in the NH. Sister who has POA doesn't want me to visit her. She says its her turn to have Mom. Mind you, sister has had been with her every holiday for years and I have had to find other arrangements. I don't want a confrontation in the NH. I don't even want to see my sister, she is so foul mouthed and snotty as are her kids who will be with her. She is definitely going to see mother on Easter Sunday. I know it will be a stressful time for me and I am not well. It takes me days to recover from the stress of encounters with sister. Should I go see my mother anyway? How should I handle it? Mom gets stressed out too from the drama sister presents and I don't want her to have another stroke. Your advice please.