My wife with dementia is in the psyh ward of our local hospital. I have been visiting every day for as long as they permit, helping her with meals, removing her restraints and walking with her. Am I helping or interfering with her care? The nurse and caregivers are are so nice they would not ask me to be less involved. But I feel my being there prevents them from doing what is best for my wife, such as restraining her, and undermines their authority in her mind and is not helpful. Should I practice tough love and reduce my interference for my wife's sake.