My mom has been in a nursing home for 3 weeks. We moved there from assisted living when she could no longer walk, dress, shower or use the restroom by herself. Also, she became very confused and would call us and say that she had been left at a party and we needed to come and get her. One night she called and said she had been in a car wreck and to come and help her. (she hasn't driven in 5+ years) She stays very confused. She knows all her family but she doesnt remember us visiting from day to day. She doesn't know where she is or why she is there even though we explain it to her every day. She stays angry and asks over and over "to go home"... We tell her she can no longer walk or do things for herself and she says "yes I can!!!"... Two recent visits she tells me "get out if you won't take me home!!". One of my sisters, that lives the closest, goes every day to check on her. Me and my other sisters, who live out of town, rotate weekends. I don't want to go. I want to see her, but not like she is. I'm afraid to go, I don't know how to handle the anger from her and the questions she asks. One of my last visits I took my daughter and little granddaughters. When she saw us she asked why we were there. WE told her we were there to she her and she replied with cursing. This coming weekend is my weekend and I'm physically sick thinking about it. I want to see her. I want to visit her but I can't handle the uncertainty of what I will find when I arrive and then how to deal with her anger.