They did send me an "Authorization to Disclose Personal Information to a Third Party" form to complete. Requires mother's signature. Can't get in to nursing home due to CoVid and besides she is in the late stages of dementia. Signing her name, very unlikely. Even applying an "x" probably not going to happen. I am at wits end trying to figure out what I have to do to prevent this benefit from being stopped.
Can anyone advise me how to proceed? VA has given me a 11/1/20 deadline.