A few months ago I posted this:
What is wrong with me??
I can't take this anymore!! My elderly father talks so badly about me to the care takers. Yesterday we got into a shouting match and he told me I was going to go blind, because god was going to punish me for not honoring my parents. I only gave up my life to come in and care for him. I made the decision to get my own apartment. I am not walking away 100% but I need to find peace and if going away for 1 week or days is going to bring me peace I feel like I have to do it. I have talked to friends about it in the past and they always change my mind. I hear things like that's crazy you are wasting money. My peace is worth more then anything. Oh and btw I am not the only child there are 4 more who have not set foot in 3 yrs!!! So what the hell is wrong with me!!!
I just moved into my apartment on Friday 04/09, on Monday 04/12 I get a phone call from APS stating that I had been reported for neglect and that my father was not being taken care of, no food or medications, and that he is left along to many hours. I have to work and need to have my own life. I was speechless for words on how all those accusations were being made towards me. I don't have any ideas on who could have said it. I know our neighbors are very nosy since I have had issues in the past. Did I make the wrong decision in moving out??? I am his POA but in order for me to care for him I needed to set boundaries. PLEASE HELP ME!!