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Tenant called the health dpt they said they would be on it (?) I hope so
social services person called me and said she would call APS
they were both sickened by being around him.
He called today asking for a number for a biohazard company
This is a total nightmare I told the social svcs person to call my sister we dont talk but she should know I am tired of carrying this alone.

Thanks BC!

I would be the caregiver in some form if he would let me, I don't know if he is delusional, has dementia (which doctors say he doesn't) or just doesn't trust me and I don't care
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Thanks JoAnn I am going to try to get an appt with the cardiologist as soon as possible.
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You maybe suffering from angina brought on by anxiety.

"Angina is temporary chest pain, discomfort, or pressure caused by reduced blood flow and oxygen to the heart muscle, typically signaling coronary artery disease. It is often described as squeezing, burning, or tightness in the chest, spreading to the arms, neck, or back. Key symptoms include heaviness, indigestion-like discomfort, and pain triggered by exertion, anxiety, or heavy meals."

 
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Good for you, Mary. You've been through enough. Social workers can get intrusive when they shouldn't because you do get ones who believe they see a halo above their own heads and have a right to be. It will be a good thing to have APS on the scene because they're the ones who can get things done.

You are not responsible for him and refuse to be the caregiver so let APS and the social workers figure things out because it's not on you.
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JoAnn29

you are right they all have my number for some reason and I slightly resent the social worker calling me to tell me she was going to call APS

ok I REALLY resent it, she even said she shouldn't be calling me so wtff-

she KNOWS my history with this person and how much I have tried to help

so why contact me

I have to block all these people and tell them I am not involved anymore

thanks E1 again gnight :)
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another double post :(
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Mary, take care of yourself.
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Take care of yourself Mary .
I hope your tests are ok .
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Thank you all!

He doesn't want to hire a biohazard company because of the cost (over $1000 and most likely more, he has the money)

I told him he will be removed from the house he doesn't believe it

Husband will talk to him if necessary for emergencies going forward, I am done

I am getting chest pains and may have had a heart attack that I didn't know about, it looks like it may be nothing, I hope so but I need more tests kind and am kind of scared. I know this crap isn't helping and maybe even causing it.
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Thank you all!

He doesn't want to hire a biohazard company because of the cost (over $1000 and most likely more, he has the money)

I told him he will be removed from the house he doesn't believe it

Husband will talk to him if necessary for emergencies going forward, I am done

I am getting chest pains and may have had a heart attack that I didn't know about, it may be nothing, I hope so but I need more tests and am kind of scared. I know this crap isn't helping and maybe even causing it.

He also doesn't know the health dpt and elderly services were contacted I hope the social worker can get somewhere with them because I didn't
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double post
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At this point, you make sure they all know you are not an option. You are estranged from this man and all you are looking for is that he gets care he needs. You will not be involved with his care. The state needs to take over at this point.
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It sounds like the ball is rolling on addressing the many issues. Good job passing it along to sister. I wish you peace
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The health department is on it, Social Services is calling APS, google can provide numbers for biohazard companies, Social Services can call your sister, so Mary, you can just sit back and have nothing to do with any of it, going forward. Sounds like finally other people are addressing the issues, which is good news.
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