So, per usual, I went out of my way to cater to my brother, and he treated me like crap. He said he was coming over with my niece today for the first time in weeks. I planned a taco dinner, collected things to give them, made a list of fruit that's ready to eat (they like eating the mulberries for example). Mid-day, he called while I was mowing that he'd be late, 6 or 7 pm. I rushed my chores all day, vacuuming, cleaning the bathroom, cleaning pond filters, mowing, showering, etc. to have time for them. I didn't wait to make dinner though figuring I could reheat it. I like to see them because I have zero visitors, no help with the house (I wanted him to move the dehumidifer to the garage; I can't do it; I have nobody else to ask), land, or my father (I've asked my brother to take him to get a hair cut since my brother gets every other Friday off, and I have no time off), and my brother lives 10 minutes away and claims my father's house is his as much as mine. Anyway, he called just a short time ago. He said his wife won't let him relax at all on the weekend (or ever for that matter). She's a horrible person, no news there after 18 years of the worst marriage ever. He was mowing his FIL's lawn. I didn't curse at him or raise my voice, and I haven't in years and never much before then. After he told me his story, and how he's always too busy, I said, "So, I guess you're never coming over." His response, "I'm never coming over. Go to hell!" And, he hung up. I really hate being hung up on. It's like a FU or something. I know he's not really angry at me but he has control issues. I'm pretty sure he's inherited my father's bipolar disorder. My brother's the closest thing that I have to a friend, and he's telling me to go to hell. Should I just forget about him? I have to keep him happy because of future will issues.