Our relationship is is very thin. We have nothing in common. I have tried and tried to hold up conversations about things that are important to her. I don't bring up stuff I'm interested in because she shows zero interest. I'm so tired of our relationship being about her. She never calls or visits. I went to see her in Jan. This was the first time I had seen her in 2.5 years. We had a falling out for about a year....that's why I went so long with out seeing her. While I was there I overheard her telling her friend about how her family never comes to see her. I'm sitting down the hall! She once went 10 years without visiting me. I love her but our relationship is in the pits. It's hard to even talk to her. She is just mad because I won't do what she wants. We lead very different lives. She does not respect people have different views on religion and politics. I'm always just wrong. I try to disagree with her but then she thinks I agree with her views. I want a normal relationship with her but I don't think its going to happen. She expects too much. How do I fix this?