Making the meals & cooking cleaning etc being there for him..lately he has become a name caller at me. His favorite is B**** or when in the car with him to somewhere he will call men the other word if they aren't as good a driver as he is. he will do things that if he leaves a light on ..and i shut it off while he has the other one on..to conserve or that the light is left on..he will yell "i will shut that off when i'm ready to and flip it back on" just to say he is in power i think. He calls me names..when he is confronted in actions that i am not liking ..and i say to him to pick on someone else or say "shame on him" for being mean. He eats in his room and watches tv..he doesnt like to be disturbed but likes to disturb others. it seems he enjoys doing something naughty or bothering someone ..he likes to sneak up behind a person also to see them jump. he also likes the casino to bs at..not too much to gamble but to be center of attention there ..if he can..around anyone that will talk to him..he isnt as nice as he may appear..but they may not know that..as they dont live with him. it puzzles me to see how he is around others..and feel him calling me a B**** when I am the one who takes care of him so he dont have to do anything ..he says he likes to make me smile..etc..but he isn't consistent..and forgets my birthday or someones..and tho his is more important. What can I say to him when he is Verbal?? Someone Please Help me!! Thank you.