Sister doesn't work and doesn't want to have much to do with Moms care. She sends her husband to take care of mom ( he can work remotely). Mom took care of her children for the last 14 years. I am the primary caregiver, l live with my mom and have very little help from sister herself with moms care. I am a widow and work fulltime. My sister has not worked for 25 years and has a live-in housekeeper/cook. Don't know what she does all day long while her husband is taking care of mom while I'm at work. Oh I forgot, my brother in law told me that at the beginning of the year she signed up as a volunteer to read to children on Tuesday mornings at their sons school. So my sister is doing volunteer work while her husband takes care of her mother. Mom is 90 and on a blood thinner for afib. She cannot be alone. I'm getting burned out. This started last August I'm waking up at least twice a night to help mom and then I drag myself to work. I mentioned the possibility of me moving out because someone was going to have to share the load with me. My brother in law said on the phone to my working adult son (who has already been missing work to help) that if I moved out they (he and sis) would sell mom's house and put her in a (nursing) home.