I appreciate this community so much. It's been so helpful. I am only child married with no kids. I live in IL, both mom and dad are in Memory care in FL. They both have various health challenges. Dad has recently been diagnosed with Parkinson's. They have been married for over 60 years and are very attached to each other. I have been frequently flying for over a year now to FL to handle various medical urgencies. As you can imagine it's costly and my spouse is getting tired of the frequency and length of time away. At end of the day I would like to move them to IL. They have no financial means, only Medicare and Medicaid. Sadly, as you know Medicaid does not transfer from state to state. I need an advocate in Chicago that can help me navigate through this transition. I get pointed to the Chicago Dept of Aging but that is a complex web of Internet information. In FL, I had the good fortune to have a good resources to help with the process. I asked them but they do not have equivalent resources in Chicago. Sorry for the long story but any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.