My Mother is a surviving spouse of a Veteran who died at the VA due to Conservatorship rule. How can I transfer my 93 year old mother in law who has dementia, cognitive impairement, bi-polar , alheimers, constipation and diarrea, has kidney disease, cataract and seizure ? They are in the process of a reverse mortgage and never applied for any public assistance, they already drained their savings account, My Mother has advance dementia and must be in a skilled facility, What can I do ? The conservator has all the authority The caretakers are the conservators employees that costs 20 thousand a month , not to mention her other non-profit business connected with elders. Should I go to court , hire a lawyer or what. We dealing with this ordeal for a year now, and THERE IS REALLY NOTHING A FAMILY CAN DO ONCE A CONSERVATOR IS GRANTED GOD'S POWER.