I am about to start being primary hospice at home caregiver for my mom. I know the home health aides will show me how to dress and change her but I am the type who likes to learn by reading. Is there a reference or a manual or a link that anyone knows of to teach me the nuances of such intimate care? Need to avoid any humiliating or embarrassing situations if I can. I can joke with her about a lot of things at the same time, she hates being fussed over. Anyone want to share how they learned to do this? I'd be very grateful!