We are a large family...with many little ones now. Some family members are still stubbornly insistent that all 28 of us show up "at Grandma's" for Christmas weekend. Grandma is 95, getting tired and confused, was recently put on oxygen (though is still mobile). I find it rude and justifiably insane to make her simply sit so little kids can roam the house. Adults, perhaps...but 3, 5, & 8 year olds? It is selfish, in my opinion. Too many people all at once. This is my mother and I am very concerned about it.