Mom's travel update.... So it's time to decide to take mom to Texas for Thanksgiving or not and I desperately need advice. 3 weeks ago I was for it but now I feel that it would be very difficult to travel with mom at this point especially with the crowds at the airport and possible delays (Which is likely during holiday travel). My brother feels that he promised mom that one of us would go with her this holiday for a visit, therefore he wants to send her. He said if I didn't want to take her, he would send her with a friend of the family. He can't get off from work during holidays. So, she may be going either way as I am not her POA and my brother feels he should honor his promise (regardless of moms status). I know I will feel guilty and worry if I don't go but, I don't think it's a good idea anymore and I think we'd both be miserable. What do I do? Do I say, I don't think it's a good idea again and then just let her go with our family friend? I also feel like all my relatives are going to judge me for not wanting to travel with mom for the visit. I want to take her but I don't think it the best thing for her. Feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place. Please give me your thoughts.