I'm the youngest of 6 kids and the only one around her. She abandonded the other 5 but kept me. I was put in foster several times, but she always got me back. I don't hate her, but I don't feel "love" for her either. I'm only visiting out of guilt and no clue why "I" feel guilty. One other sibling does call her but that's it. She wants me to stay for hours. I myself am disabled and it's only been 2 months, but my health is getting worse. When I told her I'd only visit 1 time per week she had a fit. She won't go to PT or OT, is down to 77 pounds and sits in her room all day but claims she's lonely. I refuse to let her know I feel guilty, but I do. There is no magic number of days or hours to visit, but it's never enough with my mom. Her logic is that since I'm home all day I can stay with her. Her NH is a 24 hour visiting. any tips on how to break it to her that I'll be visiting less?