Background... My mother, only 61 years old, was recently diagnosed with dementia. My father passed away from cancer 3 years ago and my mother lives on her own. I live out of state, my husband is currently on a military deployment and I am staying at out out-of-state home to take care of our 4 month old baby. Much of my mom's caregiving has fallen to my brother who lives near her. We are looking into moving my mom into a home. I am struggling with anxiety and guilt over all of this... wanting to be able to be there to help but trying to be realistic about my personal situation dealing with the stress of my husband being deployed and caring for our baby on my own. Air travel is required if I were to go be with my mom. I'm planning a couple of trips (1-2 weeks) to visit/help but I feel like that isn't enough. I guess I'm just looking for any type of support or encouragement.