Father is 87 and mobile with a cane. He is a bladder cancer survivor and has a urostomy bag. Mother has never wanted to help him with this. She is 72 and just suffered a stroke a few weeks ago. We are blessed that it was not severe, but she is/was his caretaker. I live about 1hour+ away from them. So hard for me to care for them with full time work. I have taken many days off, recently to help them. I don't get paid for time off. I have researched and outreached to many organizations. I have found lots to help them. But, I am still feeling overwhelmed with having to go there to do simple things that they can't do. ex. taking out the trash/recycling, shopping, laundry. Any ideas on how I can help them better? I think I need to encourage them to use the resources in their community? I want to be there for them, but know if they can get local help, it's a load off me! Can anyone relate? Thank you!