I am getting burnt out. My mom needs 24 hours supervision. Cannot dress herself or go to the bathroom by herself . She is also incontinent. She has diabetes and need oxygen. My husband is suffering also because he is 68 and I am 66 and he wants to have some time for traveling before anything happens to us. She has been with us 3 years and has had a stroke. I hav e no living brothers or sisters. I don't think she will forgive me if I put her in a nursing home.