My parents are 81- My Mom has moderately severe (Stage6) Alzheimers. My Dad wants to keep her at home, however, he has refused most outside help and Moms behavior is getting hard to control. He is so burned out and it has become a combat zone. I have been trying to manage the situation from 800 miles away. He has allowed the visiting nurse to come in every few weeks to assess Mom and he gets help twice a week with bathing Mom. I have talked about moving her in with me as he wants to keep her out of a nursing home as long as possible. He has not educated himself on caregiving at this stage and I don't think its safe for either one of them. I am afraid the 13 hour car trip will be tough to pull off with Mom in her current confused state. Any advice would be appreciated.