I'm pretty much the only caregiver for my 91 year old Grandmother, and her Alzheimer's is getting pretty severe. Just the stress of dealing with her remembering, (She will think people who died 50+ years ago are here, or thinks we're in an entire different state. She doesn't recognize me, and thinks I'm her nurse. She thinks that there are around 15 people living in our small 2 bedroom house, and so on). She requires a ton of meds, needs help with bathing, getting dressed, eating. She's a sundowner, and get's anxious very easily. It's all starting to become too much for me. If it were only for a little while then I could do it, but it's the 24/7 day after day for not even months but years. The closest thing I get to a day off is running up to the story. I get about 1 1/2 day off about every 6 months, and It's just completely taking it's toll on me. I'm only 21 and I swear it's giving me grey hairs. I want to look into AL, but the only way we could afford it is with SS and Medicare. Any suggestions as to if moving her into AL would be the best thing? If so, how would I pay for it?