I've been living/caring for my mom for eight years now. The last couple has been the worst with her health. She was just recently diagnosed with lung disease. I don't want her to have to move anywhere but I'm honestly overwhelmed. I have a fifteen year old son and they don't get along well. He has ADHD, and gets on her nerves and she gets upset and shouldn't be. I feel in the middle, and feel like I could have a nervous breakdown down. We have no (helpful) family and in home care has never worked out. I feel like she would be more comfortable in assisted living, but she won't willingly agree. She turns 66 next week, which is young for all the health issues. Her lung specialist told us she won't live to see 70 due to lungs/breathing. Real good bedside manners. He came in, sat down, and that's what came out of his mouth first instead of explaining the x-ray results. Any advice, tips, suggestions would be great. I know many of you have your hands fuller then mine, and I don't mean to complain but I only want what's best for everyone in my situation including myself. My health is starting to be negatively affected as well. Love and light to you all, and thanks in advance for your time and suggestions.