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Now that I asked my sister to show me her POA and moms bank statement she threatened to call my daughters mother in law and have her kids taken from her as my daughter is invoked in a ugly child custody battle..so what's that say about control.I am also not allowed to see my mom again

My sister overdraws moms bank and had her house foreclosed and two cars reposed..moved her in with my nephew who stays on domestic charges for beating his wife ..the wife left after so many years..I felt sad for her.but..my mom paid 1200.00 in rent and wasn't even on the lease..my mom can't walk or talk and is only confused at there say so..she did say she don't.want my sister to be Poa..my sister gambles..and used to drink heavily for decades..she is my half sister..she talks badly about my dad who my mom loved..she is a real bully and calls me lots of harsh names..now she is after my child..what can I.do?

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One brother who.lives far and a sister who gets the same treatment as I do..they gave up and just.don't.see my mom..in my sisters home.she took my storage building me and hubby bought after our 13 ye old was killed to store her.stuff we couldnt part with..also our 21 ye old daughter was shot in the head by accident and killed and took her.desks..she took all from moms house..she displays it all with pride without thinking how that makes me feel..she gave away everything I put in moms house..my grands stuff..everything ..she never came around me and Momn for
decades..only if I drove my Mom to see her on holidays..I keep.dealing with all this pain knowing I see tears in my moms eyes and I feel like its the worst most.cruel thing I ever.saw and I just live through the what feels like verbal and emotional abuse...like the law says its o.k. I feel like someone has to be able.to help..but I dont know who can fight.for my mom
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Oh wow, Im sorry your going through all this. No other family can help you?
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Correction " because I" disagree..not "u"
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Thank you for responding ..its been this way for two years..I didn't really know she would blow up when I asked for bank statements..but she did..she uses and has used my kids for two years..she will attack us and say we can't see mom..so we all walk on egg shells..she even says we wont come to her funeral which she already picked out everything on her own..my Mom regrets and crystal over being in her power..I didn't.see her.for a year..my sister got the attorney..not.my mom and had my mom sign lots of papers before moms.stroke..my mom always did.as she says..my mom.didn't.want to argue so shed sign..I suppose that's intimidation..towards Mom..everyone knows she blows my moms.money and lost all mom owned but all do not want to be.me and loose seeing mom

She is loud..screams aweful and tells lies on the past and growing up..I do not have.money for an attorney as I am on disability ..very fixed income that is why I try do do all she asks...she is mad now because I questioned her moving my two grand in with her ..she never has done things she commits to and I didn't want her to lie to my daughter and they would of ended up here anyways ..she'd find reasons why she can't keep them..my daughter has a way of not caring for her kids and they always end up here and I can't feed them on my pay ..my other daughter is going through a nasty break and she's saying she's gonna call them and say things about. That daughter..and now she has my oldest daughter mad because u disagree with her keeping them..its always more..she's bullied me my entire life..
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When and who assigned your sister POA? This is strictly from your sister then she was appointed right? What is exactly wrong with your mom? Try getting information from your moms Dr and see what they give you or tell you. Bank statements can be sent to the house or at the bank as well as online, is there anyway to check?

As far as the threats of your sister threatening to help your daughters mother in law, Im sorry and do understand because I have family like this when they don't get their way so they want to try to ruin anyone elses life. Your daughter needs a custody lawyer as you need I think and Elder Law lawyer for your mom. There are ProBonos and some who charge payments. You and your daughter need proof of everything possible. Im unsure what else to do, others will be here. Good luck and hugs
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