I'm a SAHM with two kids (2.5 and 10 months) and two dogs. My husband recently lost his grandmother to Alzheimer's as well -- she lived in a nursing home and deteriorated very quickly. This is my grandmother who I am very close with and I am determined not to let the same happen. I know first hand how engaging them and keeping them stimulated and with goals is very important. Just wondering what do I need to keep in mind as I approach my family with this? They are very pro-nursing home, and while I understand it may work well for some, I am very much against it for my grandmother. Thoughts?