My fiance is in a short term rehabilitation nursing home. The other sitters know their boundaries and never touch him intimately like she has. She has even pulled his pants open in front once to see if he is red. Any rash would be in back, not in front. He has expressed how he does not like that she does that and I have told her to give him personal space, as he has said she is too close. She told me I insulted her. She has then told me I can leave, when I sit there quietly and never interfere. She has said I agitate him, so he cannot sleep. Yet, the nursing home calls me to come because I calm him. I am his fiance and guardian, why am I wrong when no one elses touches him like that at night. She spazzed out screaming at me and the nurse came in, and I left upset. How do I handle this? Why is she making me out to be bad, when I was simply stating how my fiance felt. He has even expressed that and she ignores him.