I’m living with my wife of 29 years and we are a stepfamily, this intimate relationship is completely different. I love her and I believe she needs my help, but the workload is insane. I am a caregiver and not a husband in addition to working in a museum? I need to go to the beach.
Home caregiving is unsustainable in the long run. You can love her just as much when she's in assisted living and you're at the beach.