He is always right, in denial, blames everyone else, controlling and a retired high powered engineer (66). He has inherited cardiovascular disease controlled for 20 years, now type 2 diabetes after 15 years of high triglycerides, will not exercise, will not tell his doctors he has cognitive decline because he is perfect! Four years ago he started raging at his wife (me), denied it as he did not remember doing it, now has short term memory problems. He created the story I am bipolar and sold it to everyone to divert attention away from his problems. His doctors feel sorry for him having a wife so mentally ill. Bottom line, they don't live with him and see his decline, when I tried to discuss his problems with doctors, he would pull the bipolar sob story and become the innocent victim. I have been isolated and cannot get ANY help. Do I just wait it out?
