After my grandpa passed away earlier this year my husband, three young children, and I moved into my grandma's house because she didn't want to move out of her home I am completely co-dependent, so of course I jumped in to take care of her myself thinking that it was my "duty" and I was obligated to make my grandma's remaining years worry-free. I don't feel like I can take care of my grandma anymore because my family is falling apart, but I am scared to death to bring this up with her because I feel like I will just let her down. She is wheelchair bound due to permanent paralysis on one side of her body which has rendered her unable to do the most basic of things around the house. I don't want to leave her without a home and the care she needs, but I think I may need to leave for my own sanity and the sake of my family. Is there a way that I can break this to her gently?