I have been caring for my mother over the last eight years. She has progressively needed more and more care, has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimers. She is in moderate to early severe stage and we have become totally tied down with her. She looks to only me for her care and it is very hard for me to leave home for any reason, even though I have someone else here to be with her. My husband has been very supportive, recently he expressed that he would be ready to place her. I have found a beautiful place for her to go. It is a Memory Care facility that would give her a tiny studio apartment and constant supervision. My problem is I don't know how to tell her that this is what has to happen. We have become quite codependent over the years and I feel heartbroken to do this, even though I know it will be a good place for her. Any advise ????