A year ago last May I moved my parents from independent living in Iowa to assisted living in South Carolina where I live. Daddy passed last November and my mom (89) in now in hospice with vascular dementia diagnosis. Mom is very content and the caregivers are wonderful; she loves them and they love her. The problem is she has a terrible bladder /UTI and can't void on her own. Hospice has been doing an in-out cath, giving anti spasm meds and a daily antibiotic shot in the muscle. If she doesn't respond, she may have to move to a nursing facility that can manage a Foley. Any ideas of how to keep her where she is? I want her final chapter to be familiar and peaceful. She requires too much care to have her move in with us, especially since I still work. Has anyone had a similar bladder/UTI? How did it turn out? Thanks.