I have been with my Mother for 3 years without the help or appreciation of my siblings. I have an assisted living studio apartment reserved at a wonderful facility for January 15. She loves her home but can't live alone. On the advise of my Dr. and Counselor I am moving her there. My mental or physical health can't take any more. I love my mother so much and don't want to hurt her. Because I can't emotionally do it, my husband and daughter are going to tell her the day of the move and that will be it. My husband loves my mother and my daughter is a P.A. and a strong woman. I won't be around to see the move go down. Am I being gutless? I am crying every day now just thinking about it. It is just more than I think I can bear. HELP!!